Nigerian popstar and architect Adokiye startled
fans this week when, according to Vanguard, she claimed
to be willing to exchange her own virginity for the release of over 200
schoolgirls abducted by Boko Haram. The same group is also suspected of
carrying out a further spate of abductions of at least 60
more women this week, two months after the first kidnapping brought
international condemnation for the extremist group.
While many have taken to Twitter to praise her bravery, or
implore her to withdraw the self-sacrificial offer, others have criticised it
as an attention-seeking media stunt - and, inevitably, some have used the
opportunity to question the truth of whether she was really still a virgin:
Adokiye may well be a rising celebrity in Nigeria, but she
is also a UN ambassador for peace with her own charity - called #ADOCHANGE - which works with international NGOs
on health and education projects. Speaking to the NS via email, Adokiye said:
“[It is] for the less privileged children, the motherless babies. Kids who
can't speak for themselves. Its mission is to stand for them and to make them
live right.”
However, her claim that she would swap her virginity for the
safety of the schoolgirls kidnapped by Boko Haram appeared both drastic and
insincere for a good reason - in March, she made the same offer to anyone who would buy her
mother a private jet. When asked about this, she claims it was a
"joke", that she "only used it as a figure of speech to show how much I loved
my mum and would give up anything for her".
"My
offer to Boko Haram isn’t a joke,” she writes, and she confirmed that she
stands by her words:
With the help of my government, I will go to the forest and
plead for the release of those girls. If Boko Haram were to contact me that
would be scary and great but they should only do so if they are ready to
release the kidnapped girls and take up my offer.”
Whether act of extreme empathy or publicity stunt, it
highlights the sensitive issues that cloud the social status of female
virginity. When asked if she thought her offer confirmed virginity as an
exchangeable commodity, Adokiye responded:
As long as I am not offering it up for financial gains then
it’s no problem. The virginity would have to go sometime, so if I can use it to
save those kidnapped girls that would be great.”
Despite
the flurry of news interest in the initial kidnappings in March - including a
social media hashtag campaign that even Michelle Obama got involved with - Adokiye has
been left frustrated and appalled by the way the news cycle has moved on. “The sudden silence of the
media hype to get those girls freed is really scary and frustrating," she
writes. "If the exchange of my virginity for the freedom of the girls
turns out a success, then I do not see any problems at all." Since making
her offer she has been tweeting at her critics, demanding they suggest
something better if they're so appalled by her proposal.
Regardless, Boko Haram continue to terrorise the Nigerian
state of Borno, whose inhabitants live in fear of further abductions. According
to the UN, Boko Haram has forced approximately 650,000 people to flee from
their homes.
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